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How Focusing on the Present Lowers Stress

I find it’s easy to get caught up in worries about the future or regrets about the past. As my nana used to say, hindsight is 20/20, and I often used to find myself thinking about past regrets and ruminating on how I could have done something differently. 

Because I grew up on a steady diet of future-focused worrying, I also worried a lot about things that hadn’t yet happened (and, never did) and all the ways things could go wrong. 

Honestly, it was exhausting. And, unnecessary. You can’t change the past and worrying about the future just isn’t helpful. 

This type of constant mental time travel only ends up increasing your stress levels. The way to fix it? Focus on the present moment. By grounding ourselves in the here and now, we lower our anxiety and create a sense of calm and clarity. (It’s no wonder I am such a big proponent of mindfulness!)

I’m going to explain why focusing on the present helps lower stress and show you some practical ways to bring your attention back to the present when your thoughts start to drift.

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. ~ Buddha

Why Focusing on the Present Lowers Stress

Reduces Anxiety and Worry: Focusing on the present can help you to reduce anxiety about future uncertainties and regrets about past actions. When you concentrate on what’s happening right now, you break the cycle of worry and rumination that fuels stress.

Enhances Mindfulness: Being present encourages mindfulness, the practice of being fully engaged with the current moment. Mindfulness has been shown to lower stress levels, improve emotional regulation, and enhance overall mental health.

Improves Emotional Well-being: When you are present, you are more likely to experience positive emotions and a sense of contentment. This shift in focus can lead to improved mood and a greater sense of inner peace.

Boosts Productivity and Focus: Concentrating on the task at hand increases productivity and efficiency. This not only helps in achieving goals but also reduces the stress that comes from procrastination and scattered attention.

Promotes Better Relationships: Being present in interactions with others fosters deeper connections and understanding. This can improve personal and professional relationships, reducing relational stress and conflict.


Take a deep breath. Get present in the moment and ask yourself what is important this very second.


Greg McKeown


Ways to Redirect Your Attention Back to the Present

Here are some ways to focus on the present moment. Every single one of these is a practice of mindfulness, even if you are only doing it for a few moments. The more you practice, the better, but know that you only need to do one of these exercises for a few minutes a day to see benefits.

Deep Breathing

When you notice your thoughts drifting, take a few deep breaths. Focus on the sensation of the air entering and leaving your body. This simple act can help anchor you back to the present moment.

Use a Grounding Technique

Engage in a grounding exercise to bring your focus back to the present. One effective technique is the 5-4-3-2-1 method: Identify five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste.

Perform a Quick Body Scan

Take a moment to mentally scan your body from head to toe. Notice any areas of tension or discomfort and consciously relax them. This practice helps you reconnect with your physical self and stay grounded in the present.

Engage Your Senses

Focus on sensory experiences around you. Notice the colors, sounds, smells, and textures in your environment. Engaging your senses can quickly bring your attention back to the present moment.

Mindful Movement

Incorporate mindful movement into your routine, such as yoga, tai chi, or simple stretching. Pay attention to how your body feels with each movement, enhancing your connection to the present.

Practice Gratitude

Take a moment to reflect on things you are grateful for right now. This practice can shift your focus from worries about the past or future to the positive aspects of the present moment.

Use a Mantra

Develop a simple mantra or phrase that you can repeat to yourself when you notice your mind wandering. Phrases like "I am here now" or "Be present" can serve as gentle reminders to return to the present moment.

Limit Multitasking

Focus on one task at a time. Multitasking can scatter your attention and increase stress. By dedicating your full attention to a single task, you enhance both productivity and mindfulness.

Schedule Mindfulness Breaks

Set aside regular times throughout the day for short mindfulness breaks. Use these moments to practice deep breathing, meditate, or simply sit quietly and observe your surroundings.

Connect with Nature

Spend time outdoors and immerse yourself in nature. Whether it’s a walk in the park or sitting by a window with a view, nature has a calming effect that can help you stay present.

Wrap Up

Focusing on the present is a powerful way to lower stress and enhance your overall well-being. By using simple techniques to bring your attention back to the here and now, you can break the cycle of worry and rumination, fostering a sense of calm and clarity. Embrace the power of presence and experience the profound benefits of living in the moment.

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